First of all, let me apologize for how long it has taken to get this blog written. We've actually been out doing so much that I just simply haven't had the time to sit down and write one. Anyway, it's been a really fun week and a half or so, so I'll do my best to recap for you.
Last Friday, Brent and I met up with Hyo Son again (the girl we met at Busan Tower), but this time we didn't bring any other friends along. We decided to go to Bennigan's, because she had mentioned to us before that it's her favorite restaurant and we like "normal" food, making it an easy decision. When we met her and first sat down to eat, she asked us if anyone else would be joining us and we said no, to which her immediate response was, "Good!" It was pretty funny and confirmed our suspicions that she felt out-of-place the last time we all hung out. We actually had a really good time with her that night. After dinner we went to a local bar for drinks and socializing. The whole night we found her humor to be quite on par with ours, which was awesome. One thing that has been difficult here is being able to joke around with some people, because so much is lost in translation. Needless to say, it's nice when we're with people that we can joke around with and be more of ourselves. It's a lot more comfortable for sure.
The next day was quite the adventure for us. Soo was making good on her promise to show us around Busan and wasn't wasting any time. She planned a full day of activities for Saturday, which included us meeting her at 9 a.m. in Seomyeon, which meant I had to leave my place at 8:30 a.m. Brent and I both got up early and met up with Soo and her friend Ji Won (English name Jeany). Ji Won drove us out to the Haeundae area where the beaches are and we visited a couple scenic spots up on a hill to start the day off. It was a nice day, but the problem was that stupid haze I've mentioned before. I have no doubt the view would have been beautiful if not for that haze. Anyway, from there we moved on to the Hae Dong Yong Gung Temple. Try saying that two times fast, let alone five. Now, I know I mentioned in my last post how I'm kind of tired of Buddhist Temples, but this one was actually kind of cool because of it's location. It was perched on these rocks right on the water and was really beautiful in it's setting. Obviously it contained all the same Buddhist things a temple would, so none of that was really new, but it was the setting that made all the difference.
After the temple, they took us to have lunch at the Millak Waterfront Park located right on the water near the Gwangan Grand Bridge. According to our Korean friends, this is one of the most famous bridges in Asia even though it's not very old. I think they said it was built in like 2000 or something. Again, had it not been for the haze, it would have been a much more beautiful outing. Soo actually woke up real early in the morning that day to make lunch for all of us. She made Gimpop, which is like sushi rolls, but without sushi. These things are okay, but the problem for me is the seaweed. It just tastes like ocean water to me and I don't think I'll ever understand the appeal of eating it. Anyway, it was a nice gesture nonetheless and I ate it happily without complaint.
From there, Ji Won drove us back to her apartment, where we ended up catching a taxi to our next destination, which was the Busan Educational and Cultural Center for Students. Outside, they were having a kind of culture festival, with many traditional Korean elements on display and available to interact with. As the name suggests, this was really a place for young Koreans to come learn more about their country and their heritage, but it was actually perfect for Brent and me, who are almost in the same boat as them as far learning about Korean history and culture. This place was so much fun. We played traditional Korean drums, games and even made this traditional candy, which was actually just pure sugar melted with some baking powder. It was near impossible to eat, because of how sweet it was, but we still had a good time making it. We were even able to watch a little bit of a traditional Korean wedding, which we're told actually takes about three hours to perform. Yikes. That may give the guy too much time to change his mind I think. Anyway, from there we set out on a nice long hike up this mountain right next to the center, though Brent and I were unaware that's what we were doing. That was the like the second or third time we were tricked into a mini hike. We think they do it on purpose. This one was quite a hike actually, but we went at a nice slow pace, so it wasn't too bad. Believe it or not, we ended up back at that same amusement park that we went to when we went on the hike with my co-teacher and her friend. We just got to it coming from the other side of the mountain. At this point, we were really getting to know Soo and Ji Won much better and, much like Hyo Son, we found them to be really fun and easy to get along with. They too have a good sense of humor and are just as willing to dish it as they are to take it. Totally cool.
After the unexpected hike, Soo and Ji Won made good on another promise, which was to take us to Cold Stone. So we hopped in a cab back to Seomyeon and had ourselves some ice cream. Here are the main differences between the Cold Stone at home and the ones here: 1) There's no tipping in Korea, so they don't have a tip jar for you to put money in and make them sing. Maybe next time we can just bring a portable karaoke machine for them. They sure do love the crap out of that. 2) When you order the "Like it" size, you get the "Like it" size. Almost every Cold Stone I've been to back home, when you order one size, they actually give you ice cream that would fit in the next biggest size, so this was good to know for future visits, of which there will be many. 3) They don't allow you to mix and match as much as they do back home. There is a menu item where you can make your own creation, but it's pretty basic; choose your ice cream, choose your topping. So all in all, it was still really good and like I just mentioned, we will be making return trips.
After Cold Stone, we decided to go to a DVD Bong, where you actually rent movies and watch them right there in a mini-theater with friends. Most of these locations are designed for couples, but the one we went to sat all four of us comfortably. There was a large couch and a pretty nice sized screen for us to watch the movie. Brent's been wanting to see some Korean movies here, but the problem with the ones that are playing in the theaters is that there's no English subtitles. DVD's on the other hand do have English subtitles, so Soo and Ji Won picked out a Korean movie for us to watch. It was interesting and a bit confusing for me, but it was fun nonetheless. After the day we had already had, it was actually a good time to catch a few zzz's, but I didn't sleep enough to miss out on anything important in the movie. Soo was actually the one who slept through the whole thing! It's actually become a thing where we tease her about being so lazy. It seems as if every time we talk to her, she has just woken up from a nap or something.
The day continued on from there with dinner at an Italian restaurant near Kyungsung University, an area we had previously not visited. The food was good and we took the opportunity after to walk around a little bit, after which we went home. It really was a fun day. They showed us a good time around the city and the best part was that they were really fun to be with. There was never a moment when either of us felt like it was time to cut the day short, because we were all just having such a good time. In fact, we met up again on Sunday, though this time just for dinner at Burger King and a movie. Now, Brent and I have pretty much run the movie well dry here. We've seen everything we've wanted to see and are patiently waiting for the summer blockbusters to start coming out. Anyway, that left us with really two movie choices that night: Fast and Furious or Bride Wars. My vote was for Bride Wars. Sorry, but seeing another Fast and Furious movie was just not something I wanted to waste my money on. Faced with those two choices I honestly felt I would be more entertained by Bride Wars. Especially since the last movie I was forced to watch was Push. Anyway, I lost the vote and can now boast that I've seen two of the four Fast and Furious movies. Awesome. If you enjoy cheesy dialogue and bad acting, don't miss the latest installment of this ridiculous franchise.
Tuesday came around and we were invited to Ji Won's house for dinner, so because Brent and I have a difficult time turning down free meals, we met up after school and Ji Won picked us up to take us to her place. This was another fun evening, where had the chance to meet some more people, have dinner and play a new card game that we haven't played before. I'm not sure it's a Korean game though. I think it might just be a game we've never heard of before. The game itself was fun, but what was really funny about it were the cards themselves. The game is called "Bonanza" and the cards all had different kinds of animated beans on them. Everything from Stink Bean to Blue Bean was drawn on these cards with some sort of personality for each and they were so funny. I wish I had my camera to take pictures of them. Anyway, like I said we met a couple more people that night and watched our network of native Korean friends almost triple in an instant. Again, the best part about this is that all the people we are meeting are so cool.
On Thursday, we met up with Soo, a girl named Gina that we had met on Tuesday and one of Gina's friends, whose name unfortunately I'm forgetting right now. We went to VIPS to enjoy some of that comfort food I've talked about and played some pool after. We had the chance to get to know Gina more that night as well, and again found her to be so cool. Now, there is a downside to all this however. We're meeting all these really fun people, but three of them will be leaving us here, all within the next month. Soo is moving to Canada to study English towards the end of May. Gina is moving to Australia next week to study English. The friend whose name I can't remember is moving to San Diego next month to study English. So, as happy as we are to have met all of them and as much fun as we're having with them, it's kind of bummer that they're going to be leaving us so soon. Ji Won is still going to be around, which is great, but it just won't be the same without everyone.
Friday night we were invited to dinner at a Chinese restaurant by one of the people we met at Ji Won's house on Tuesday. He owns his own printing business and was having a company dinner and asked if we wanted to come. As previously mentioned, Brent and I have a hard time saying no to free food, so we met up with Soo and went to have us some Chinese food. Believe it or not, while there we met even more people, this time a nice family who actually took us out for coffee after. We spent some time talking to them and interacting with their children, one who is in seventh grade and the other who I believe is in first grade. The mom mentioned how she wants to take us to some places in the city and of course we obliged, but no real plans or anything were made. Brent and I just kind of sat back in amazement at how fast our Korean network developed, and I think just felt really thankful that everyone we've met so far in Korea, minus maybe one, have been so cool and so fun.
Now, I know all of that seems like a lot, but the biggest news of the week is that I think I may have figured out the beverage situation here in Korea. Last week, I followed Brent's brilliant lead by bringing a water bottle to school and drinking from it during lunch. At long last I was able to quench my thirst. Well, my co-teacher asked me why I was drinking water and I explained to her how in America, we have something to drink with every meal and I'm just not used to not having a drink and I need something to wash down my food with, etc. So, she says to me, "But, it's not good for your health." What?! When I asked her to clarify, she couldn't, so we pretty much left it at that for that day. A couple days later at lunch, another teacher asked me why I had the water bottle and I explained to her just like I did to my co-teacher and got the same response about it not being good for my health. She however provided a response for me when I asked her why. She said it disrupts the digestive process of my food. I shouldn't be drinking two hours before or after my meals apparently. Ha! No way I was conceding this fight. I explained to them how you're supposed to drink eight glasses of water a day and they agreed, but said it should be outside of those meal times. I then countered by explaining to them that the soup that we have everyday with lunch has water in it, and for this they really had no argument. I even kind of forced my co-teacher to admit that she needed the liquid to wash down the food. You can't eat white rice without some sort of liquid! After lunch, I even went on the Internet and found various articles where doctors mention that they've had patients ask them about drinking liquids with meals, and every one said that drinking with your meal is totally fine and in some cases better than not drinking. I showed these to my co-teacher and she still said that she will believe her doctor, which is totally fine. I'm not trying to change her mind, I'm just trying to get her to understand that I'm not crazy because I drink with my meals! Anyway, I believe this may be the reason why beverages are rarely provided with meals here. There must be many Koreans who believe the same thing that my co-teacher and other teachers do. Ridiculous.
I have a lot more to say, but this post is getting pretty long by now, so I'll stop here and be sure to include those other things in my next blog. I've included some pics and video below and also wanted to include some links to popular Korean music. These are the super popular songs and groups right now that we hear all the time. Enjoy!